Realizing that your marriage is on the rocks can be a shocking revelation. 

Is divorce your only answer, or are there other available options for couples who don’t want to go through the process? Here’s what you should know about divorce alternatives. 

Is Annulment an Option? 

The annulment of a marriage is an option for some couples who meet certain eligibility requirements. A divorce formally dissolves a marriage, however, an annulment “erases” it, as though the marriage never existed at all. Not all couples qualify; usually, you need to be able to prove that one spouse was coerced, misled, or did not have the ability to legally consent to the marriage. 

Legally Separating from Your Spouse 

A legal separation can give you and your spouse some time apart while remaining legally married on paper. You can get a feel for whether you’re ready to move on with your life independently, without risking your access to benefits while you take the time to figure out how you feel. If you decide to reconcile, you can simply resume your life as it was before, without having to get involved in any red tape. 

Mediation and Compromise 

If you do decide to move forward with your divorce, compromise is key to avoiding costly, frustrating, and time-consuming litigation. When you meet with a licensed New York mediator, you’ll discuss matters like child custody, spousal support, and equitable distribution with your attorneys and a neutral third party. Ideally, you’ll reach mutually beneficial solutions that work for your entire family without having to go through with litigation. 

Considering Arbitration 

Arbitration is another option for individuals who don’t want to go through traditional divorce litigation but who are unable to reach a mutual compromise through legal separation or mediation. Arbitration requires you and your spouse to visit an arbitrator, who is like a judge, usually in their private chambers. The arbitrator will review your case in detail, ask relevant questions, and issue a final decision on one or more matters relationg to your divorce. 

Learn About Available Divorce Options with the Help of a New York Family Lawyer 

The idea of dissolving your marriage can be a frightening one, especially if you’ve been married for an extended length of time. However, if ending your marriage is the right path for you, it’s important to learn about the different options that may be available. Contact Mary Katherine Brown today at (718) 878-6886.