What Are the Emotional Steps of a New York Divorce?

Posted on : September 1, 2022, By: Mary Katherine Brown

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Emotional Steps of a New York Divorce

Dissolving your marriage requires a lot of emotional wherewithal and patience with yourself. Here are some of the different psychological stages of getting a divorce that you might find yourself in, what to do that may help, and when to get help from a family lawyer.

Anger

Anger is commonly one of the first emotions experienced when two spouses begin to have differences. You may feel resentful of your partner for what they did or didn’t do to end the marriage, and it’s normal to go through this stage even well before thinking about actually divorcing.

Sadness

At several points throughout your divorce and in the aftermath, you will likely feel periods of immense sadness and guilt. You may be sad for what happened, what could have been, or the ways in which you have contributed to the breakdown of the marriage.

Resignation

You will eventually move past the anger and sadness phases to a stage of acceptance. Of course, you can still experience various emotions during this stage, but you are largely resigned to the reality of what is happening. You begin to accept that the marriage really is over and that you really will be moving forward with your life, even when it seems like everything is still the same.

Taking Action

Once you’ve reached the stage of acceptance, action is typically taken. If you are the one who wants the divorce, this is the step that involves actually filing for the divorce. It could be starting to pack your things or contacting a divorce attorney too. Any tangible move towards separation can be considered action, and this step repeats throughout the process of actually dissolving the marriage, splitting up property, etc.

Accepting the Divorce

As the divorce becomes finalized, you may experience more grief and anger before moving onto a second acceptance stage, where you begin to realize and understand that the divorce is complete. Earlier, you felt the acceptance that a divorce was imminent, and this final step is the acceptance that the divorce is over and your new life starts now.

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